The hanged man

Weird coincidence: was just watching an episode of Lost in which John Locke tries to hang himself. A moment later I accept an invitation from a friend on Facebook. When I go to his page, I see a tarot card application there. The card of the day is the hanged man. The explanation of the card says that it means I have to look at my situation from a new perspective. It goes on, "The Hanged Man creates change by acting passively and accepting fate. By surrendering control and making yourself vulnerable, you will facilitate change in your life." I wonder to whom I should surrender control and make myself vulnerable?